Julio, if i could give this 1000 claps, I would. This is my story and, I hope, my son's. My first wife and I divorced after 20 years of marriage, and I am now in my 15th year of my second. I know that "downward spiral" all too well. I can only hope that my son, who is almost 27 now, looks at our marriage the way you look at your parents'. Thanks for this.