I'm with you on this one. For some, spirituality is playing with their imaginary friend and talking with the voice in their head in some sort of dialog. I had a student once ask me if I believed in God. I told him it didn't matter, that I would do the same things I am doing whether there was a god or not. I told him I don't treat people nice just so I can get into heaven. There doesn't have to be something extra in it for me. Being good to people is its own reward that way. This is getting too long. I'll stop here.